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MY HAIR FELL OUT! REPAIRING DAMAGED HAIR! TRANSITIONING TO NATURAL?!?!

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Updating you all on my hair journey and how my experience with apple cider vinegar rinse went all wrong and caused my hair to fall out. I will be working to grow my hair back long and beautiful this is all for now, I have homework to complete. leave ques, comments below. added November 1, 2016 ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ OLDER VIDEOS ARE STILL PUBLIC ON MY CHANNEL FOR REFERENCE OF MY HAIR, IT'S THICKNESS (LEVEL) AND ANY OTHER CONCERNS YOU MAY HAVE S ABOUT MY HAIR. FEEL FREE TO SCROLL BACK AS FAR AS YOU WOULD LIKE =) (I SURELY DID REWATCH SEVERAL OF MY OLDER VIDEOS. I TOOK NOTES FROM MYSELF. IDKY I EVER SHYED AWAY FROM MY OWN ROUTINE OVER THE YEARS) I have relaxed hair. I have always suffered dandruff, even when I had natural hair as a child ( the condition of my hair (relaxed or nautral ) is not related to my dandruff) In the past, Sulfur 8 worked wonderful on my dandruff (7+ years; since high school) but overtime as I stopped having a flaky scalp I slowly stopped using my sulfur 8.because I felt that my hair no longer needed it. Recently, about 5 hair tutorials back, I began to get lots of comments about my hair being dirty even after washing, and I received a few comments with concerns about "white specs being in my hair". I first used an oil treatment to help with my dandruff, which some of my subscribers were unsure that I suffered from years ago as It was never mentioned on my channel in depth before. The oil worked for a while but definetely not like the Sulfur 8 had worked for me in the past. I don't know what I was thinking even trying the apple cider vinegar rinse as I NEVER TRY ANY HOME REMEDIES FROM YOUTUBE VIDEOS on my hair. As for the rinse, I use only a small amount mixed with water as mentioned in several of the natural hair tutorials that I watched. I allowed the rinse to sit on my relaxed hair for ~10 mins then I rinsed it out and proceeded with my usual wash day routine. Common sense I knew not to use vinegar in my hair because it strips things so I know it would strip my hair. Not to mention the fact that my mom says vinegar is what people used back in the day if they wanted to get rid of a relaxex / (perm as she calls it). Long story short, (not really) I will NEVER try home remedies, on my hair ever again. I plan to use my sulfur 8 for my dandruff. Yes, I have head and shoulders, T Gel,..you name it, If it's for dandruff I probably have it under my cabinet. so as for the apple cider vinegar rinse I don't know what I was thinking. like seriously, what was I thinking? =D. So your next question may be relaxed or natural? at this point, i am 15 weeks post relaxer. my hair is not ready to be relaxed and I will not choose to relax my hair until I feel that it is a better condition from the rinse before I choose to do so. It's honestly not a decision that I'm even focused on right now. as I am only concerned with getting my hair to be healthy again (the rinse has made it so brittle) this is all that I will say on the topic of relaxed or natural for now. In conclusion, always do YOUR OWN RESEARCH, i am not blaming or bashing anyone else for the condition of my hair. as with all other hair decisions, it was my own choice and free will to try this rinse on my hair, I am only sharing with you my journey and experience. I do not plan on trimming my hair any shorter by the way. I do plan on revisiting my older regimen, hair routine, and choice of hair products to aid in growing my hair back because as I recently watched my older tutorials from previous years, it def helped my hair thrive. (idk how I shyed away from a lot of my own practices) but I'm def going back to them, example: roller sets, oil sheen sulfur 8, roller set straightening. basic routine!!! check older videos for details, as i cannot cover it all in this one place. For now, this is all that I can think of to address and explain in detail for you all. If I think of anything else that I forgot to mention, I will update the info bar. thanks for watching and reading. YOU CAN ALSO FIND ME HERE: Instagram: @allofdestiny Twitter: @allofdestiny Personal Facebook: use the URL: /allofdestiny SEND ME SOMETHING: Drop It In The Mail, allofdestiny Will Tell: Destiny Chalmers P.O. Box 280233 Memphis TN 38168 Thanks For Watching, allofdestiny
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allofdestiny (1 year ago)
hey yall. want to see how my hair looks 7 months later? check out this video. 👇💖🌟 https://youtu.be/By7antwfoc4
¥oshi Xo (1 year ago)
I use apple cider vinegar for shampoo and I have relaxed hair and I’m 15 weeks post relaxer and it hasn’t made my hair fall out but you’re supposed to do equal parts of vinegar, water and coconut oil or your voice of oil. Everyone’s different tho thanks for the disclaimer. I also follow up with a protein conditioner ☺️
RED SUNSHINE (1 year ago)
allofdestiny. HEY U K OW I WAS JUST WO DERI G ABOUT YOUR HAIR GROWTH SINCE THE SET BACK I HAD ONE TOO ITS NOW GROWING BACK HEALTHY IM GOIN TO CHECK OUT THE VIDEO UR VIDEOS ARE THE BEST AT YOUR HOUSE AND U CAN HEAR YOUR MOM & FAMILY MEMBERS IN THE BACK ROUND I LUV IT LOL DOWN TO EARTH PEOPLE KEEP THE VIDS COMIN ❤
kristell guy (1 year ago)
allofdestiny..........How often should protein treatments be done on damaged, relaxed hair??
imlissa (1 month ago)
Ok with that pretty voice
Sarah Vincent (1 month ago)
Try using ketoconazole shampoo
Tracy N (2 months ago)
Is it safe to use rice water on relaxed hair?
Anika A. (2 months ago)
Super ghetto
SaraMaliboo (4 months ago)
Please do a video singing
Kristen’s Way (4 months ago)
70 thousand subscribers. Now you have over 3 times that amount. Look at God. 😇😍I was a subscriber on this video. It sure if I commented probably not. I was so shy then.
Michelle Howard (4 months ago)
I’m just commenting so you can have 1k comments 😊
allofdestiny (4 months ago)
How cool. Lol thanks
N1kay7a (4 months ago)
I love how you took this negative and made it a positive! I have to subscribe!
allofdestiny (4 months ago)
Thank you. Welcome.👋🏽 Glad to have you here 💖
N1kay7a (4 months ago)
The vinegar was probably to harsh for your relaxed hair.
nicolekimmie (4 months ago)
Omg. I watching this 1-8-19 at 11:35 am and this song just popped up on Pandora right when you started singing. So cool.
TheEvolvingMe (4 months ago)
Whew! Praise God, you just saved me from stripping my relaxed hair! I've been preparing to do an ACV rinse. Your momma's comment makes great sense!
Zarriah Love (4 months ago)
You are soo beautiful!! And thank you sis ! I appreciate you sharing this experience with us hopefully you do stay relaxed our relaxed community is getting a bit smaller 😅 but relaxed hair can indeed be healthy. We need your inspiration!! Thank you so much 😊💕💞
Mia Moore (5 months ago)
My hairs relaxed too boo and i had my setbacks but now my hair is down my back. Start doing more braidouts and use lower heat settings on your flatirons. Trust me you’ll grow that hair out in no time
Nightfox Rushing (6 months ago)
Relaxers;. What you see Dee?! What you see Dee! 🙄😶😮😆
Nightfox Rushing (6 months ago)
Bald head hoes....
xVvix xnNix (6 months ago)
Try nizoral shampoo
Product Review Girl (7 months ago)
at 8:00 it was a memory shock for me .. my hair was super heat damaged just like that and I had enough and cut mine off and started natural... cannot go back to relaxers ever.. hanging on to little stretched edges will hold you back
Shaniek Weise (8 months ago)
Vinegar tends to strip the relaxer from your hair don't know about dandruff
lorettalynn Davis (8 months ago)
Now *that's* a hair journey! Thank you so much for your honesty and being fourth coming about the mistakes you made with the apple cider vinegar. You are absolutely gorgeous, so you could be bald and you'd still be pretty girl lol. God bless your heart, and your family (Mon who helps you out) and your overall lovely disposition. It really helps to see what someone else goes through :)
Willisha Alford (8 months ago)
It also helps to use hair cutting shears instead of just regular scissors...regular scissors will snag and create more split ends
Toni Silver (8 months ago)
Which one is naturally better??? RELAXED or NATURAL??? I'm debating on transition to natural but I'm afraid of cutting my hair. It really broke off bad cause I kept putting perms and color in my hair without knowing the damage unfortunately...I need some HELP YALL ????
mary janes baby (8 months ago)
Awwwww that’s too bad, you should’ve used Sulfur 8 products to remove dandruff. Also make an appointment to see a dermatologist for your scalp.
Corina Corina (8 months ago)
Thanks for the realness! We as girls go through it. Very beautiful woman.
Latrice (9 months ago)
Did you mixed the acv with water 💧
MzJayy (10 months ago)
Make a singing video! 🎤
Miss Jennifer (10 months ago)
My daughter has very bad dandruff and I brought her into the dermatologist and she was diagnosed with dermatitis of the scalp. So she has a prescription shampoo that she uses now to keep the dandruff under control. I would recommend that if your dandruff has always been a problem. She can’t leave braids in to long or crochet because her scalp sheds more than the average and she will get itchy patches on her head that turn into scabs if not washed enough. We just found your page today before we did a at home relaxer and thanks for all the info, it helped us so much 😊 she is straightening it right now and I’m going to help her trim it. That’s again ❤️
Johndale29 (11 months ago)
Thank you so much for this! Something said make sure all the acv videos on YouTube are not just for natural hair. My gut said it wouldn't be right for relaxed. You saved my hair! Thanks!
Janell Dotson (1 year ago)
Well Thanks so much for posting this because this just recently happened to me. I am natural no relaxer and I had dranruff with a relaxer & natural. I was trying to get my natural curl pattern back & tried the acv rinse my hair also matted up & wgen I was trying to comb it out coming out & its still shedding. The aphogee treatment has not stopped it! I will try the egg & mayonnaise. So what did you do & how is your hair now? I didn't wanna know the damage so I haven't blowed dryer my hair. I have deep conditioning my hair twice a week. So I have no more dranruff I just have to do something to stop the shedding.
Dana Renae (1 year ago)
My sister has severe dandruff and she’s natural. Have you tried peppermint oil with coconut oil? That may help. I’m relaxed myself!!☺️☺️☺️☺️
RiRi J (1 year ago)
Very pretty regardless. 😆💕✨
Dae richardson (1 year ago)
You can SANG ! Thank you for the upload
Queen Bri (1 year ago)
Since you're using eggs, when you rinse it out make sure the water is as cold as you can stand it so he doesn't cook the eggs.
Jazmaine Washington (1 year ago)
You r so pretty I look up to u as a 13 yr old
Shyasia Evans (1 year ago)
I almost cried when I seen all the hair in the sink
Karla k (1 year ago)
Hello Im new to your channel, thank you for warning about the apple cider vinger rinse I wan going to buy some vinger and try it .
Z&B Gang (1 year ago)
I love you ❤️
Neyney Harvell (1 year ago)
OH, MY GOD, I WAS GOING TO USE APPLE CIDER ON MY RELAX HAIR THANK YOU IM GOING TO SUBSCRIBED
ouR T V (1 year ago)
Beautiful
Kelcey (1 year ago)
hey girlie. do you know if using aloe vera (the gel from the plant) would be a good idea for relaxed hair??
Thea Alleyne (1 year ago)
I love your positive attitude
Jinie Nardo (1 year ago)
hey my dear I love your channel. God bless you. I just think that your hair will really blossom and flourish and grow past your shoulders when you become natural. stop with these relaxers. no thing wrong with relax hair but natural is you girl. think about it become a natural it will be the best decision you will make concerning your hair. thank you
Pansy Pitts (1 year ago)
I love your video God bless you
Im Me (1 year ago)
Question so for hair that's damage and breaking do a protein treatment how after do I do the treatment once twice or what and then follow up with a conditioner regular or deep then blow dry moisture
D Cam (1 year ago)
I was reading the description....and I just used acv today...it helps me so much
Christine Martin (1 year ago)
Years ago Durning s bad dandruff episode. I pulled some hair out trying to quickly untangle. Sad outcome for me.
Christine Martin (1 year ago)
What’s on your edges?
Christine Martin (1 year ago)
I love your roller dry video. Thank you I have terrible damage from a relaxer. So I’m wanting to use this roller set to reduce heat.
Sage Atkinson (1 year ago)
I did the same exact thing and my hair became very rough and tangled
LaKendra Rawls (1 year ago)
Don’t let these folks tell YOU how to wear YOUR hair. I have healthy, relaxed hair, and I suffer from dandruff as well. I was natural for about 6 months and my scalp was worse. I didn’t have the patience or any help dealing with it, so I started relaxing again. I don’t regret it at all.
Ayana (1 year ago)
Im natural never had a relaxer or perm ever nd i had use da apple vinger rinse in my hair nd i had more hair comeout than u....i didnt even leave it in too long
Carter's mom (1 year ago)
You have such a good attitude about your setback. It happens to us all. I had a setback a while ago and my hair bounced back fine. And I knew yours would too and it has. I knew you could do it
Safiya Young (1 year ago)
Is that a good soft bonnet dryer ?? Is the bonnet really tight with big rollers ? Is the bonnet expandable ?
Suzette Hoyte (1 year ago)
My child has brastrap length thick hair with a texturizer and terrible dandruff. I have tried apple cider vinegar to detox her scalp, it didn't touch her dandruff, she didn't experience any hair loss like you did (sorry for that). We have tried sulphur 8, t-gel, baking soda, honey/cinnamon scrub, and tons of other stuff, a trip to the dermatologist to no avail. Last week I re-watched some India ladies on YouTube takling about Neem oil, her beautician suggested Organic Tea Tree oil . I went to whole foods and found both, mixed them together with a carrier oil, it was as if the dandruff melted off. Today is a week and her scalp is as clean as the day she came from the beauty shop. Just a suggestion.
Tea Kea (1 year ago)
Forget any naysayers sista! you put alot of helpful detail into your vids without alot of "talking about nothing" that I see in most haircare vids...so love these and keep them coming! Ive subscribed!
allofdestiny (1 year ago)
Tea Kea the naysayers were never thought about to even be forgotten🙊🤷🏾‍♀️. Thank you. Im glad to have you here. Welcome. I hope you enjoy more videos 💖
Diamond B (1 year ago)
Can't wait for more videos like this desss
Destiny A (1 year ago)
what was the egg in stuff for like do that stuff grow yo hair or no do clean out your hair or something like that
Leah Wilson (1 year ago)
How do you do the braided halo bun?
Daaraofthegesert (1 year ago)
Have you ever been checked for scalp psoriasis?
Mary Rose Aguid (1 year ago)
Is this apple cidar vinegar can remove the hair relaxer in the hair atomatically
Cheryl Young (1 year ago)
It's not just hair.
Cheryl Young (1 year ago)
Why did you cut your hair.
Cheryl Young (1 year ago)
You should not wash your hair in the kitchen, that's gross.
Cheryl Young (1 year ago)
Omg
Michy Bliss (1 year ago)
That happened to ny hair too
Jessica Jenkins (1 year ago)
I need a scarf like that
Vivca McCoy (1 year ago)
what relaxers do you prefer i have coarse textured hair
Ella Garcia (1 year ago)
Just saying so whatever works for you. You are not hurting anyone :)
Shan-Shan123 Boo (1 year ago)
I agree with you with the apple cidar vinegar situation. That happened to me also
Khadijah W. (1 year ago)
You should do a singing tutorial😂💕
pitts638 (1 year ago)
maybe u should get cornrows or box braids it grows your hair like crazy
Jessica Rabbit (1 year ago)
Just yesterday I looked at my bottle of ACV and then read about rinse benefits. Destiny, I would have done this to balance my hair, I don't have dandruff. Girl!! You saved my hair!!! Its long and I would have been devastated. I've only seen whites do the rinse, it never dawned on me the vinegar could take out my hair. Thank you, girl.
Lisa Jaelyn (1 year ago)
I just removed a see in and I only had it in for a month but hair got matted and I'm going through the same struggle just had to trim so much of it
Ms chocolate lady (1 year ago)
very helpful ... lol ... i use egg when i remember to but my hair still breaks... maybe less than it would if i didnt dunno... but it still does. tried to chop some off last week. we ll see where it goes...keep up. love the personality, pretty fun to watch.
Angelia Huntley (1 year ago)
I had dandruff as well but I started using Jamaican Black Castor oil Help me TREMENDOUSLY.... I dont have that issue anymore try it to see if it helps if you haven't previously. Also perm? Natural? Do what you feel is RIGHT for you! you have a beautiful spirit about you I've enjoyed watching your videos.
Leggs (1 year ago)
Destiny use Rosewater with Glycerin for the dandruff. Just spray it on your scalp. It's super cheap and it works! You can get it from Whole Foods. I've been using it for years!!!!! It's Not harmful at all.
collis boyce (1 year ago)
I guess u put to many things in your hair on one day. so it didnt work out as u think it would
Ashley Acord (2 years ago)
Your scalp sort of looks like you might have psoriasis..? Have you ever asked a doctor?
R. Merkson (2 years ago)
the acv rinse did the same thing to me. all of my hair has fallen out for three years. I'm nearly bald and my hair won't stop shedding.
Victoria’s Life (2 years ago)
Girl I'm natural and it stripped my hair and I only put a tablespoon and about one cup of water so it's not just relaxed
tonika mccoy (2 years ago)
Hi destiny can you still do a roller set after you did the protein treatment and I like your videos as well
D J (2 years ago)
Won't be able to do the big bun with your hair that short
D J (2 years ago)
It's funny cus I said years ago she was gonna switch. Now I might subscribe back. Cus relaxed hair is so unhealthy. Nobody ever listens to me
Curtia (2 years ago)
Egg protein is to big to penetrate the hair shaft. It's pointless. The mayo is fine though.
tanayza coker (2 years ago)
so just a, few days ago I was just looking up how to do heatless curls and happen to come across one of ur videos for the very first time and really enjoyed it and decided to subscribe I came across this video on ur channel today and it was very help along with a, couple of other videos u have made. I see that you have used various hair products thru out ur tutorials and seen that it has worked wonders for your hair ive been having some trouble with maintaining my hair especially the fact that I'm trying to keep it natural and I really need your help by knowing what hair products do you highly recommend to maintain heatless curls and maintaining damaged natural hair
EliSou (2 years ago)
I learned for your mistake I won't be doing that
Versatile Female (2 years ago)
Are you still doing the treatments?
Vanessa (2 years ago)
. Girl do what's best for your hair don't listen to these people saying natural hair is your only solution.I went nat 2.5 years ago because of a relaxer . Being natural i was still loosing my hair. Now i am using natural oil treatments such as coconut oil , olive oil etc.. It works for my hair , I am not saying its the best solution .But you might think about it. Good luck Destiny and thanks for sharing with us.
Alicia Mendsey (2 years ago)
Sorry to hear about your experience. I have been natural for 10 years. I made a few videos on my channel about transitioning and I have written two books about it. They are on Amazon. The books are called Dynamic Curly and Dynamic Curly Extended. Dynamic Curly Extended is a paperback book on Amazon.
JA'KAYLA THompson (2 years ago)
@ 6:40 girl them vocals on point 😩😩😍😍😍
mkenziesmith (2 years ago)
She seems so sweet and humble and I appreciate you doing videos for us. You have a beautiful voice girl. Keep it up💕❤️
Jordee&Babes (2 years ago)
This is why I stay far away from relaxers
Courtney Yates (2 years ago)
T-gel will help get rid of dandruff. It's a product for dandruff and scalp treatments. It also helps with seborrheic dermatitis which could be what the big flakes are. Give it a try.
Jennie Mon (2 years ago)
Have you ever used tea tree oil? I am natural and I did the ACV one time if I feel like my scalp is itchy another natural told me to try tea tree oils which is much well... wayyyy much better but you know it's trail and error boo and going natural won't stop dandruff lol so whoever said that needs help lol but anyways hun your hair will grow back fuller and your hair still looks cute
Portia Watson (2 years ago)
I used to love my sleek styles but going natural was the best thing I could have ever done ...going natural is a big decision to make people think it's easy but it is a life changing thing so give it so thought..
Jamila Williams (2 years ago)
You can have your hair anyway you wanna natural or relaxed, you need not give an explanation..however to treat the scalp issue you can try aloe juice by weekly along with oils as a pre_poo.
carmenj1231 (2 years ago)
Damn y'all natural girls are like Jehovah's witnesses in the comments
Dntworry Boutit (2 years ago)
I have a question!..what is good for major split ends???
Latrice (2 years ago)
Destiny transition to natural you'll love your curls
Opinionated (2 years ago)
Can any mayo be used for this? Would miracle whip work?
Krisan Peckoo (2 years ago)
hi am a subscriber lol. but my hair around my head is like shorter than the middle "the high tension areas" not horribly short but obviously short I was hoping if you could like help me figure out what to do to get it looking as healthy as the top. I have since recently starting doing just roller set. my hair looks good but is that enough?

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